Sunday, July 24, 2011

4th Of July 2011

 
The girls showing off their specially chosen barbie dresses (Grandma chose them from Suzanne Kelly's Barbie Museum - her own handcrafted creations!) Mom and the girls after a day of play!
Jon and Talia on the swingset.  Talia is showing Jon the "Spider."  He had no idea what she was talking about. :)
This year, my mom, Kelly, Brian and Talia came to visit us the week of the 4th of July.  At first, I tried to think of many activities around the KC area to entertain us, and that we might have a lot of down time.  In fact, we didn't even get to all of our activities!

 Some pictures before the fireworks display...

 There were bounce houses, train rides, rock climbing walls, and FOOD!



 Kelly painted some toes, Grandma played some "Have you ever ever ever..." with Caitlin and by the end of the night...
We were all spent.  The fireworks were fantastic, as usual, and the kids LOVED it!  The anticipation was long lasting, though.  The rest of the week consisted of Dave & Busters, shopping, playing at Jon's gym, a date for Kelly and Brian, and trips to local boutiques.  A fun time was had by all! :)  We hope to do it again soon!

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Our Girls Right Now

 Caitlin & Macy have been spending almost 100% of the summer together.  We moved Caitlin's full size bed out and bought a new twin size bed for her.  We also moved Macy's twin size bed in to Caitlin's room - making it Caitlin & Macy's room.  Caitlin reads umpteen books to Macy and they giggle for quite awhile before settling down for the night.
 They play lots of dress-up and a game they call "mama-baby."  We go to the pool when it's over 80 degrees, and they play with barbies together, mostly with their fashion dresses that no other kid seems to have! (Thanks, Mrs. Kelly!)
 They are so close.  When Macy gets hurt, Caitlin instantly cries and helps her sister.  She looks out for her, and insists when friends come over that they all play together, so as not to leave Macy out.  Macy cannot sleep without her sister in the same room, and screams out for "sissy" all day long. 
 Caitlin is growing up so fast.  This picture is so beautiful, but so grown up it wells up a tear in my eye.  She loves dance class (hip hop and cheer/pom pom), and is growing more independent every day.  She is extremely sensitive and worries about other people, people dying, and what other people think.  She reminds me soooo much of myself when I was young, and I try to allow her to have fun and not worry about scores as much as she does, or about things we cannot control.  She has lots of questions about God and Jesus, but has so much faith.  Her prayers are so honest and caring, and I can tell she works very hard at them.  She looks out for her little sister, but gets annoyed easily by her 3 year old nuisances.  Her current career goals are nurse or daycare worker.  She absolutely adores little kids and they seek her out.  She's usually a rule follower, but can be convinced by her sister to be ornary.  She can go 100 miles a minute, but tires out fast (especially after a day at the pool).  She is a fish in the water and constantly wants to do handstands, strokes and sommersaults in the water.  Her sensitivity allows her to be friends with girls who tell her what to do and threaten to not be her friend anymore on any given day and this upsets her so much.  I hope she will gain confidence and the ability to stand up for herself and be able to turn down a friend if it means giving in.  She is extremely moral and often tells on herself when she has done something she knows is wrong.  Her reading is coming along, but math she still likes to just "get through."  She likes to play basketball, but soccer is still her strongest sport, although she doesn't LOVE it.  She'll play it, but she wouldn't choose to do it all day long.  She plays hard, together, and competitive, and does get frustrated easily, especially if she doesn't win something.  She's sweet, sensitive, and has an incredible imagination that she shares with her sister when she listens...
Macy isn't what you would call a follower, except in the case of her sister.  She copies her, wants to play whatever she's playing, and likes what she likes.  Macy is certainly her own person, though, and likes things done routinely.  Her favorite games are Memory and the Glob game (a computer game).  She has picked up on Caitlin's DS game, "Smart Girls."  She is definitely ready for her own, which is scary!  She can be one extreme or the other - extremely sweet and caring, or snotty and mouthy.  She can scream "NO!" to her parents and not blink an eye, but snuggles up to all of us after bath, if she has an owwie, or when you read her a book.  Books are a favorite of hers and she can listen to them for an afternoon.  She loves the library and will start preschool in the fall.  She still throws fits, but they are becoming less and less lengthy and she is beginning to understand consequences.  At night, she tends to get her giggly, goofy, defiant personality and may get up and ask for OJ, a hug, or a random item just to put off bed.  Her blanky is still ever present for nap and bedtime, and the pool is a favorite place, but she trusts less than a handful of people to hold her.  Swimming lessons were not a hit, but ballet was fun for her.  Odd as it sounds, she declined a second class.  She is still very small for her age in weight, but has gained some inches.  She still wears 18 month pj's and skirts b/c otherwise they will fall off of her.  You never know if she'll say hi, have a conversation, or shy away or yell no.  She's our little pistol, though, and we're thankful she's the way she is!

Waitin' for the baby!

 Aunt Traci came to Wichita a couple of weeks ago to see family before the baby comes!  We are anxiously awaiting the baby's arrival and the girls were so thrilled to pick out presents for her and the baby!  We had a baby shower for her and had fun with friends and family that weekend while Grandpa and Dad participated in the annual family golf tournament for Don's side of the family.  Fun was had by all, and we can't wait until the baby comes in August! 

 
 Father's Day 2011 was full of fun, laughs and low key downtime for the girls and I.  Jon was focusing on the deck, so we let him choose what he wanted to do - although we interrupted it with a water balloon fight!  (which I did not have the camera ready for)

Caitlin and Macy each made a card; both of which are hanging in the house as I write.  Some things Caitlin thought up on her own:

"My dad is as strong as a lion."
"My dad is really good at teaching players."
"My dad is really fun and tickles me."
"I like to go to the gym with my dad."
"I love my daddy with all my heart and soul."

Macy said, "My daddy is my best friend!"

We are so thankful for such a great day!  We love you! :)

Friday, July 8, 2011

Deck Project Complete!..Nearly

Jon and his dad laid the foundation for Jon's summer project: a deck.  After his dad left, Jon spent about 5 days trying to figure out some stubborn stairs that I requested cascade down from the corner of the deck.  I recanted the cascading request, as well as the corner of the deck, but Jon set his mind to complying, and with some internet searching and trips to the lumber store, Jon figured out his way of making the stairs.
 This deck is really something else.  Jon installed solar lights on the step up to the deck and post caps that are also solar lights.  The stain turned out very pretty and I could not be more impressed with this accomplishment.  Jon worked very hard after work up through 10:30pm some nights, and the last night before company, we had the whole family staining!  We didn't eat until 9:30pm that night!  The girls were thrilled to help, though! 
The only part we have left is to put the foot boards and spindles on the stairs, but we feel good about the rest.  Now that I know Jon can figure out how to do such great work, I'm looking for more projects I want him to do!  He's still requesting a tv out there on the deck, but I am not budging on that one! :)

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Deck In Progress

WHAT: Bishop Deck Project
BUDGET: $500 according to wife, but she allowed + $300 after 
      a profitable basketball tournament last weekend
TIME FRAME: 10 Days

On Friday, June 10th, 2011, Jon and his dad started working on "the deck project."  For the previous 2 months, Jon had been persuading me, and mapping out his plans.  I joked about making sure to check diy.com so he wasn't embarrassed by guessing measurements and winging it.  He noted that his dad would make sure of that, and he did.  His dad can build most anything, and likes to be exact on measurements and angles and we are soooo thankful for that!  So far, the deck looks awesome!
 The girls loved the dirt that came out of the 3 foot holes, except the sound that the rented post hole digger made.  Macy was definitely not a fan of that thing.
 She did love the dirt, though, and on Sunday held up a chunk of dirt and asked, "Do you want some
poop-pie, mom?"  I passed, obviously.  I wonder if diy.com would have an answer for this question?
 I wanted to take some "before" pictures as my cousins always do, since I will (hopefully soon) be posting some "after" pictures. 
 Before, we had a cement patio that our table and chairs sat on.  It was nice, but a little cramped.  Our grill sat off to the side on a cement slab Jon and his dad poured 2 summers ago.
This is just some of the lumber that we bought to start the project. 

This is how one of the work days ended.  Macy is the only one that's truly asleep here, but Caitlin wanted the picture to include everyone napping.  The two that needed the nap the most worked from sun up until sun down, though.  Jon has been working daily on the deck at this point, and has been struggling some with the steps and the rude guy at Lansing Lumbar.  Splitting wood has been his nemesis from Home Depot, but he's kept going despite those and what he thinks is a possible broken finger (after he slammed the hammer down on it himself).  So, who knows?  Maybe we may get on Renovation Realities after all!

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Spring Soccer 2011

This was Caitlin's first year in Lansing Soccer. There were 13 kids on her team and this year they got to use a goalie (which they call a "Sweeper," who cannot use their hands). Each player usually is supposed to play sweeper at least once a game, but apparently if you whine about it, you don't have to.

Caitlin had a few quick kids on her team, the usual kids who were more interested in the blowing leaves, and a little girl who always had her hair in matching bows and perfectly clean socks...who rarely kicked the ball. She averaged about 2 goals a game, which we were very proud of. We still think this is her best sport at this age, although she claims that basketball is her favorite (which has to be in direct relation to her dad because it certainly is not her strong sport).

We were quite proud of her this year, and more so towards the end of the season. She showed more toughness and gutted out a lot of hard work towards the end of the season and worked harder for her goals.

Caitlin was most proud of her strong kicks, I think. She told me of her friend, Landon, who was "taunting" the other team when Caitlin was goalie. He looked at an opposing player and said, "Better watch out! She kicks far!" Caitlin nailed it to the other teams goalie and Landon screamed with a snicker, "Told ya!" and belted out an evil laugh. Although I don't promote taunting, it was pretty sweet.